Evelyn Z. California

Victim Blaming in Rape Culture

"What was she wearing?" "Was she drunk?" "Was she leading him on?" Victim blaming is a huge problem in today's society. It justifies sexual assault by assuming the wrongdoing of the victim, instead of the rapist.

Dear Next President,

One out of every six women has been a victim of sexual assault in America. However, only 30% of sexual assault cases are reported. When it is reported, victims may face backlash for coming out, known as victim blaming.

When rape cases are reported, people tend to question the behavior or the appearance of the victim that may have led to the assault. The go-to response is to assume that the victim was asking for it. However, shouldn't someone be able to express themselves and act freely without having to worry about someone preying on them? For example, if a woman wears a short skirt, she is not "asking for it"; she is simply wearing what she wants and practicing her right to freedom of expression. People should be able to dress freely without having to worry about the unwanted attention they will get from it. With victim blaming, the actions of the rapist are justified, discouraging rape victims from coming out and getting the justice they deserve.

A solution to victim blaming is to simply teach people not to rape. "No" means "no", and yet some people still take it as a signal to continue to pursue their victim. People do not realize the severity of the crime. Rape victims are not only physically affected, but are also emotionally and mentally scarred. Still, rape is not treated as a big deal. Fraternities from Yale University and Texas Tech have been suspended for allegedly shouting "No means no. Yes means anal." This type of thinking makes rape a "joke", allowing people to glorify it as another way to pick up a girl. Victim blaming is a way to make the sexual assault appear as the victim's fault, justifying it by the way they dressed or the way they acted. But instead of teaching girls to cover up and not act a certain way, shouldn't we be teaching men not to rape?

This issue is only getting worse, with rapists getting shorter sentences than someone who committed a less severe crime. This behavior is teaching men that rape does not come with serious consequences. For example, Brock Turner, after sexually assaulting a woman behind a dumpster at a Stanford frat party, only served three months of a six-month minimum sentence. It was "justified" because he was a star swimmer on Stanford's swim team. The media treated him as a smart, successful student who made a "mistake", and did not deserve to rot in prison. Whenever they mentioned Turner's name, "Stanford swimmer" was attached to it. This type of sympathy for the rapist contributes to victim blaming in rape culture.

With an increase in sexual assault cases by 6.3% in 2015, rape culture is becoming increasingly prominent in today's society. Victim blaming is a major factor of the lack of victims that come out with their stories. It places the blame of the sexual assault on them, when it should be placed on the offender. Nothing should justify rape, not what someone is wearing, whether or not they were intoxicated, or if they were "asking for it". Rape is not a "joke", and should be treated as a serious crime where offenders do not get let off because they made a mistake.

We must unite and put an end to victim blaming in America. Thank you.


Evelyn Z.

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